03283cam a2200373 i 4500 3796 3796 17672921 OSt 20191011183752.0 130326t20132013enk b 001 0 eng 2013012245 9781849059510 (alk. paper) 9780857008084 (eISBN) DLC eng DLC rda DLC pcc RC553.A88 S828 2013 616.858 82 STA; 1 23 Stanford, Ashley, 1969- Troubleshooting relationships on the autism spectrum : a user's guide to resolving relationship problems / Ashley Stanford. London ; Philadelphia : Jessica Kingsley Publishers, [2013] 288 pages ; 23 cm text rdacontent unmediated rdamedia volume rdacarrier Includes bibliographical references and index. Preface. Part I: The Troubleshooting Process. 1. The Foundational Principles of Troubleshooting. 2. Why Troubleshooting Works - Top 10 Reasons. 3. The Troubleshooting Process - Identify, Test, Evaluate. Part II: Beginning with Correct Assumptions. 4. Fixing the Problem Versus Fixing Each Other. 5. Nearly Any Problem Can be Resolved When it is Small. 6. Using Binary Thinking to Your Benefit. 7. Assumptions - How to be a Partner (Not a Parent). 8. Troubleshooting Mindblindness - The Universe is Us. Part III: Troubleshooting Everyday Problems. 9. Troubleshooting Communication - Meta-Discussions. 10. Troubleshooting Executive Function - Planning and Scheduling. 11. Troubleshooting in the Bedroom - Sensual Sharing. 12. Troubleshooting Perfection, Aiming for Imperfections, and Making Your Life Lighter. 13. Troubleshooting Your Personal Attachment Style - Anxious, Avoidant, or Secure Attachment. 14. Troubleshooting Reciprocity - Tips and Tricks to Create Support, Appreciation and Respect in your Relationship. Part IV: Troubleshooting Big Problems. 15. Troubleshooting Blame and Avoidance. 16. Troubleshooting Monogamy and Faithfulness. 17. Troubleshooting Existence Together - Inside the Home. 18. Troubleshooting in the Wild - Outside the Home. 19. Troubleshooting Obsessions and Priorities - Choosing What to Do with Your Time. 20. Troubleshooting with Children - When a Couple Becomes a Family. 21. Troubleshooting Meltdowns. 22. Troubleshooting Complaints - Toxicity in Relationships. Part V: When Troubleshooting Does Not (Or Does) Work. 23. Rebooting. 24. Other Problem-Solving Methodologies that May Work for You. 25. Troubleshooting Whether to Stay or Go - The Decision Process. 26. When it Works - Identifying and Celebrating Improvements. Appendix A: How to Love. Appendix B: Signals of Love. Appendix C: Test for Co-Dependency in ASD-Linked Relationships. References. Index. Autism spectrum disorders Patients Rehabilitation. Autism spectrum disorders Patients Family relationships. Autistic children Rehabilitation. Social interaction.. Interpersonal relations. 7 cbc orignew 1 ecip 20 y-gencatlg ddc STS 0 0 ddc 0 0 77/4 AIISH AIISH 2019-10-11 0 616.858 82 STA; 1 19480 2019-10-11 00:00:00 2019-10-11 STS 0 0 ddc 0 0 R-44/1 AIISH AIISH 2020-02-27 0 616.858 82 STA 19479 2020-02-27 00:00:00 2020-02-27 RFT